In The Next 5-10 Years, The Coaching Industry Will Be Obsessed With Grief
In the next 5-10 years, the personal development industry is going to be obsessed with G R I E F.
And it’s going to a good thing; a great thing.
Move outta the way toxic positive psychology, and the 1000 latest nervous system hacks to #liveyourbestlife.
(which primarily help you “manage” your emotions so you fit into the oppressive capitalist structures like a good little over-achieving, productive human 🙃)
We need more G R I E F coaches rather than Life coaches IMO.
There is no outrunning grief.
When we avoid grief, we avoid life.
When we suppress grief, we suppress life.
We stagnant,
we silence our truth,
we remain in cycles of toxic stress and sickness.
We live contracted in fear, never fully expanding into the truth of who we are…
It’s no longer a time to placate sacred rage and ancient heartbreak.
If you’re actually connected to humanity, your heart should be breaking.
Revolutionary Grief is not here to break us down though;
But rather, to break us O P E N.
To shake us awake into embodied action.
To make us wake to the next iteration of our leadership that’s needed on this planet 🔥
We’ve just come off an intense decade of collective awakening…
…and yes there’s been some serious issues in integrity as the coaching and wellness industries have sky-rocketed into multi-billion dollar industries…
But overall, it’s been pretty cute.
Us humans remembering who we are and trying to work it all out on the physical plane 🙊😅🥹
Healers and mystics coming into their own, and tearing down life as they knew it to rebuild a life aligned with truth where they can share their gifts as guided with their community 🫶🏼
I have compassion for us.
I believe we’ve done well
*annnnnnd*
I believe we’ve got work to do.
In fact, we’re only just getting started.
The last 10+ years was our personal preparation for what’s ahead.
Those who only ever got into “coaching” as a way to lead a laptop lifestyle and make quick money have long faded from the scene.
Those who were *actually* born to be the wayshowers of this time to help usher in this change right now on this planet are still here.
I see you 👀
Some of you are hiding…
scared of your own power.
Some of you have refined your gifts over the past 10 years whilst healing your own wounds…
but still don’t know how you fit into modern day marketing (so you still aren’t living your destined role and helping your community in the way you know you’re meant to be).
Some of you have found a level of success in your healing business or helping profession…
Yet you know there’s a deepening for you (and your clients/community) available.. you just haven’t quite worked out what it is yet.
I see you 👀
You haven’t failed.
You haven’t missed out on your chance.
You’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
Now is your time.
If you were waiting for a sign, this is it 😉
As higher consciousness continues to actualise into physical reality; lower consciousness is clinging and trying not to die.
The world as many people know it, is on fire.
Systems of control are intensifying oppressive and divisive tactics.
There is more uncertainty, fear, suffering, rage and GRIEF than ever.
Despite a million self-help books, wellness podcasts and health experts >>>
Mental health and chronic physical health conditions are still rampant.
Anxiety and depression have gone nowhere.
Systemic issues, poverty and unmet basic needs remain unresolved.
Healers, Mentors & Leaders >>>
We’ve got work to do.
It’s time to get out of the stars and onto the ground, and into the hearts of your communties.
We don’t just need your love and light or your latest shadow work method or anxiety hack…
We need Healers, Mentors & Leaders who can sit with the totality of the human experience, and not run away from it.
We need Healers, Mentors & Leaders who have metabolised and transformed their own suppressed Grief into True Power, True Love & True Self Expression…
… so they can innovate and lead healing initiatives in their local communities with confidence.
We need Healers, Mentors & Leaders trained beyond modern psychology, surface-level coaching and new age spirituality trends…
… who have unraveled from oppressive systems and can walk with others from a place of embodied wisdom, humility and equality in power.
This time is what you’ve been initiated for 🔥
You’re at the final frontier.
I know you might be feeling exhausted from your quest.
But you didn’t come this far, to come this far!
You’re *so* close to landing in the exact place you know you’re meant to be.
There is just one final hurdle for you to walk through to complete.
Welcome to your grand finale.
Your true return home and *full circle* moment…
Your Revolution ⭕️ awaits.
✨There will come a time when you believe you’re at the very end… That will be the beginning✨
Hi 👋🏽
I’m Tessa.
First class honours in psychology student, turned rebel against the system & mental health industrial complex.
Grief has been my sacred teacher of Life, Love & Truth on this planet since watching my mum die from cancer before my eyes when I was 10.
I dedicated much of my professional life to front line work in social welfare where my heart broke again and again for the humans in front of me, and the brokenness of our systems.
Witnessing my dad die from cancer five years ago, was the beginning of the end for me in my initiation into Grief.
Over the last 20+ years, I’ve found myself unexpectedly consistently ahead of wellness trends.
I’ve come to learn my particular leadership path initiates me in collective consciousness themes early. Sometimes months, sometimes years, sometimes decades.
I never felt it was truly my place to take up space in any one of the fields I had journeyed…
Until now.
Last April I got moved so deeply and greatly by a consciousness moving through me that everything changed…
R E V O L U T I O N A R Y G R I E F
And now, I get to bring it to you.
This… is different.
For this… I will be taking up space.
I will be loud.
I will be persistent.
I will be banging on about grief I until I cannot speak or type anymore 😂
NOT grief in the way it’s currently spoken of…
which is largely
>>> bereavement-focused & event-specific (rather than a life-long relationship with impermanence, change & loss)
>>> shaped by a lack of consideration of the capitalist-colonist nexus of grief, and systemic disconnection from our true nature
>>> lacking multidimensional depth and misunderstanding of it’s true transformational power
The truth is most of us have grown up without adult role models who have expressed grief regularly and healthily.
Until we identify our Internal Grief Template and understand how to evolve it, we will subconsciously recreate cycles of suppression (as role modelled to us when we were younger) 🔥
This is what we’ll be diving into in REVOLUTIONARY GRIEF.
We’ve got work to do.
So let’s get to it.
“If you feel you don’t fit into this world, it’s because you’re here to help create a new one.” - Jocelyn Daher
R E V O L U T I O N A R Y G R I E F